Help with guys?! plz help me!?

haha. i have went out with many guys. and might i add that they were very hot but i was in the same position as you i wasnt super popular but i wasnt a nerd. i had a lot of friends. but the way i got the guy to notice was me at a party i was in this room putting my stuff down and he came in and we started talking and then we left and the door locked so he laughed at me but came with me to find someone to open it then later that night we talked and then we started dancing. so dont seem to desperate or anything but casually walk past him looking like you're having a fun time and be fun around him and wear your cutest clothes and laugh at all his jokes. CONFIDENCE IS KEY! but dont change who you are because it wont work. eventually he'll see you for you and learn to love you for it